Devotions

It’s another Date

I am going another date. Not with my husband; not that he doesn’t know already. My mother passed away not quite a year ago. Yesterday was her birthday. I have tried to keep up with my stepfather; he stepped into the role for almost 28 years and made my mother very happy… So it’s another date. I try to do something with him once a month sometimes it works out to be more. It has become very fun and interesting. He likes to eat; so we are trying out all sorts of new places and the good old tried and true places.

Why don’t we date anymore? My husband and I have tried to make Wednesday night our date night. His love language is eating also; perhaps it’s that way with all men. Not that I don’t like to eat,but I enjoy experiencing life doing other things.

Jesus left us an example to love people. For me, that means going on dates. Grandpa Frank and I used to go out all the time. He always found someone he knew regardless of where we would adventure in southern Minnesota. Jesus didn’t seem to care what you did, but he did care that you “did something in his name” A cup of cold water, a chocolate chip cookie, a walk in the park, a listening moment or a package of M & M’s. Loving means doing something.

“Truly I tell you, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name because you belong to the Messiah will certainly not lose their reward.”
It’s not about getting a reward, it’s about loving people. I belong to Jesus Messiah. I belong to a world who needs Jesus Messiah. What an incredible way to live life; simply showing people who need the Messiah, that I have the Messiah. Sometimes it’s as simple as a cup of cold water. Other times it’s paying for the people’s groceries in the line in front of you when they are $5 short. It’s opening the door, it’s inviting someone to your home to watch football, it’s grabbing a name off the Christmas tree at church and buying gifts for a mom trying to make ends meet. Perhaps it’s turning around in church and talking to the person sitting alone, inviting them to lunch, getting to know the man who stands by the water cooler alone, opening the door, it’s inviting someone to your home to watch football, etc.  Get the point? Our life can have meaning by simply doing for people over and over and over and over and over again.
I kind of have an advantage; Grandpa will pay. But that’s not the reason and that’s not the point. We can be a bright spot in anyone’s heart; and it does cost us time, energy and love.  But then again; Christ came to earth and spent 30 years investing in people. What a unique example for us.. Go find someone and go on a date!
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